Tuesday, February 17, 2015

World's Oldest Female Backpacker (no, not me!)

We've taken a certain amount of pride in backpacking our way around India for two months and now SE Asia for a total of four months with our 7 kg packs on our backs.  So just when we thought we were a wee bit of hot stuff, enter Elizabeth from Bonn, Germany.

It's a totally chance meeting in the warung just a quick walk from our homestay.  Although the sweet owner, Sri, overcooks her fish, we have gone back a few times out of . . . loyalty or something I can't identify.  Something about another one of those humblingly sweet Balinese we feel almost guilty about not patronizing! (and no amount of coaxing and pleading on Tim's part can persuade her to take the fish out of the pan/off the grill sooner!)

Back to Elizabeth.  One night at Sri's, we see a single older lady at the next table (there are only 4 tables) and we exchange hellos, talk a bit about food and her love of mango smoothies which she pours over her leftover dinner rice (we think it's a bit weird).  Next night, there she is again, and we invite her to join us. 



Turns out she's 85 years old, born in 1930, and has a horrifyingly vivid memory of watching German Jews being marched through the streets of her city.  It is embarrassing and painful . . . she's widowed 10 years and apparently glad to see the last of old hubby ('a gambler and a drunk to whom I had to pay support for years!')  Since his demise, she's traveled solo for four months every winter ('it's too cold to stay in Germany!') and she makes us look like backpacking wannabes!  She's been to India multiple times and absolutely loves it. ('I think I know it better than I know Germany.')  From here, she's on her way to the Phillipines for a month with old friends from Bonn. 

Another night's dinner and we're practically old friends.  She invites us to come and stay with her in Bonn (she has a 14-room house), and to arrive by the last Saturday in September when she hosts a 'big party' for all her friends.  'You can help me with the party.' 

This is her last night in Amed, and she's very nostalgic.  She's been coming here every night for dinner for two weeks (her homestay is a km away), thanks to taxi service on Sri's brother's scooter.  She's an avid hiker but these roads at night, even with a flashlight, are dangerous.  And Elizabeth is no shrinking violet.  Somehow we get on the subject of cockfights in Bali, and she whips out her iPhone and proceeds to play a video of a cockfight she attended!!  'Awful' she says as she hits 'replay'.

She insists we join her in a farewell drink - an Arack Attack.



Silly us, we think it's a benign, mildly alcoholic thing and want to be sociable.  One of these, split three ways, is a mind-bender.  This is the local hootch, poteen, moonshine, jakeleg that Tim swears is 100 proof.  My mouth and brain are immobilized - I am incapable of speech.  Arack is made from some sort of distilled palm leaves and to make it palatable, is sweetened with honey and lemon.  No doubt it would otherwise take the enamel off your teeth and permanently anesthetize your tongue. 

Our new friend, Elizabeth . . .



See you in September, Elizabeth!

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